Sex

Sexual droughts are all too familiar. Your sex life ebbs and flows. At times sex feels juicy and abundant. Other times, well, as dry as the Sahara desert. How do you deal with sexual scarcity?In couples therapy, I see this issue all the time. I tackled...

Elysabeth Williamson, author and yoga teacher, writes,  "Touch is as vital to our survival as air, food and water".  Touch allows us to communicate and connect, to listen and express, to give and receive.  A lack of touch can have a strong impact on your well-being.  Many couples who dislike...

New Age Kink? Meditative Bondage? Tantric Sex?I always say vanilla partners can learn so much from the BDSM community about sensual sex. If you practice vanilla sex, this article gives you a sneak peak into the world of kink. For established kinksters, New Age Kink adds...

Couples struggle to reconcile love and lust. Love brings you a sense of safety while lust requires wild abandon. One is considered holy, the other sinful. This week, my client Don and I discussed his lack of sex life with his wife and he asked...

Years ago, I almost had an orgasm in a restaurant. Well, sort of. I had travelled up to New York City to spend a day with a good friend. After a few hours at the Met, she brought me to a mouth-watering mediterranean restaurant in...

Q. We want to try something different to break up our routine. He wants anal sex. I've really never tried, but I feel like I need to be open to new things. Are there any good tips or resources for beginners?A. Whether the receiver of...

I remember my "first love" back in high school. On a warm September night, he kissed me on the lips for the first time. I distinctly remember how magical it felt. I nearly melted to the floor. Sadly, he became the high school love who...

I just got off the phone with a new client, a heterosexual newlywed couple, married for 1 year. He needs more emotional intimacy in order to feel sexual towards her. She wants greater physical intimacy so she can connect emotionally with him. Neither one wants...

Here is where I deviate away from the book, A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex that has guided our 5 part series.  Author Laurie Mintz, Ph.D. cites one example where a couple rates their sexual experience on a scale of 1-10 after each sexual...

Now that you’ve learned how to talk about sex before it starts happening, how do you do it while sex is happening? Based on a book by Laurie Mintz, Ph.D., titled A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex.  she breaks this down into five key areas.In-The-Midst...

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