03 Apr Should I fake it?
Q. Hubby likes things I can’t deliver. Should I fake it?
A. ABSOLUTELY NOT! Faking is lying. No ands, ifs or buts about it, even if your intention is to please your partner. I’m not sure what the phrase “can’t deliver” implies. If it means that you are not interested in those things, it’s important to let your partner know. Communication is essential in all aspects of sexual exchange. Often times, partners tell me they’ve been faking it all along. They feel so caught up in the lie that they don’t know how to stop without raising their partner’s suspician. So do right by your partner (and yourself) and tell the truth, always.