Dominique learned something valuable about sex therapy as we processed her separation. She and her spouse had been married for over 35 years. They met as late teenagers, grew up together and raised 2 children. One of their frequent conflicts involved sexual desire differences.Dominique told me...

Q. We have trust issues. Can you help us?A. Trust is the most sacred pact a couple can have.  This short video highlights some contributors to trust problems. Trust becomes broken when you confirm a betrayal or a lie. But some partners live on high...

Sexual droughts are all too familiar. Your sex life ebbs and flows. At times sex feels juicy and abundant. Other times, well, as dry as the Sahara desert. How do you deal with sexual scarcity?In couples therapy, I see this issue all the time. I tackled...

If you haven’t caught this sweet, super short love story called "A Romance That Started With a Mistake", recorded for StoryCorps, then click the link to listen and come back to this post. I'm struck by how Bill and Claudia touch on key elements on what makes a...

Q. I just found out I am losing interest in sex and when I have the urge, I don't get satisfied easily and as a result, I don't even reach orgasm anymore. What do I do or should I abstain totally? Please, I need your...

Q. Having a lot of sexual problems since losing my spouse, I don't know what to do about it, it's complicated. A. Loss is never easy, no matter what form we experience it in. As humans, through our quest for connection, we attach to people and...

Q. I had oral sex with my girlfriends boss, never did anything like that before, she asked me to do it to excite her but at the same time, I enjoyed it. Does this mean I'm gay or bisexual? I'm confused, this has to be...

“What is the best time to do things?”“Who is the most important one?”“What is the right thing to do?”Taken from my son's book titled, "The Three Questions” by Jon J. Muth, a young boy named Nikolai asks these three questions in an attempt to learn...

Q. My wife and I are both in our 60's. She has no interest in sex or romance. We haven't been romantically involved in years. I have considered having relations outside of the marriage and have even discussed this with her. I'd like to stay...

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