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Q. We have trust issues. Can you help us?A. Trust is the most sacred pact a couple can have.  This short video highlights some contributors to trust problems. Trust becomes broken when you confirm a betrayal or a lie. But some partners live on high...

Q. I just found out I am losing interest in sex and when I have the urge, I don't get satisfied easily and as a result, I don't even reach orgasm anymore. What do I do or should I abstain totally? Please, I need your...

Q. Having a lot of sexual problems since losing my spouse, I don't know what to do about it, it's complicated. A. Loss is never easy, no matter what form we experience it in. As humans, through our quest for connection, we attach to people and...

Q. I had oral sex with my girlfriends boss, never did anything like that before, she asked me to do it to excite her but at the same time, I enjoyed it. Does this mean I'm gay or bisexual? I'm confused, this has to be...

Q. My wife and I are both in our 60's. She has no interest in sex or romance. We haven't been romantically involved in years. I have considered having relations outside of the marriage and have even discussed this with her. I'd like to stay...

Q. My boyfriend of 1 year has recently told me having sex with me makes him uncomfortable. Our sex life was great for the first 4 months of dating, tapered off for another 6 months and now we haven't had sex in 2 months. We...

Q. I cheated on my wife several months ago. I felt horrible and did not tell her. She recently found out and is understandably beyond angry with me. I want to save my marriage despite my failure as a husband. Can you help me and...

Q. I’ve felt lonely in my marriage for a while. I’ve told my husband that I need to feel connected, that we need to do things together. Share an interest, go for a walk, talk, etc. I’ve told him for years that I need more...

Q. I love my boyfriend deeply and he loves me. The problem is that I am not physically attracted to him but he is to me. We are both in our sixties, but he has minimal sexual experience and regards fellatio as degrading to a...

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